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Food and Hosting

Abby Lee's Kitchen Table

31.10.2025

Put the kettle on and spend five minutes with chef Abby Lee (@abby_lee_chef), whose cooking is a love letter to her Malaysian roots and the power of food to heal. After burning out and finding herself back home during lockdown, Abby rediscovered the bold, soulful flavours of her childhood through her aunt’s kitchen and it changed everything. Now, at her London restaurant Mambow (@mambow_ldn), she’s bringing that same heart and heat to the table: smoky gula melaka–laced desserts, punchy curries, and dishes that balance memory with modern flair. Abby talks about finding her voice through food, the joy of reconnecting with her heritage, and why cooking still grounds her like nothing else.

Interview with Abby
What inspired your journey back to cooking the dishes of your Malaysian roots? 
After closing my first pop up as lockdown hit, I travelled back home burnt out and unhopeful. Asian families tend to show their love through food and my aunt was constantly cooking these incredible meals to comfort me. I had been cooking Italian food for years and completely distant from the food I grew up with - to taste these flavours again, I felt reinvigorated and inspired. I had a gut feeling learning these recipes from my Aunt would put me in the right path. 
What motivated you to open your restaurant in London? 
To be honest, it’s where I’ve built a life in, since moving here 15 years ago. At the same time, I feel like London has one of the most receptive and creative food scenes in the world, and people want to try food from other cultures regularly. 
Is there a particular regional dish or ingredient that you’re especially passionate about sharing with a wider audience? 
Gula Melaka, it’s an unrefined palm sugar made from the sap of coconut palm flower buds. A little similar to the Thai palm sugar, but a lot darker, more smoky and caramel-y, with a tad of bitterness. It gives dishes a more complex flavour, whether in curries, dressings, or braising meats. It’s also the basis of most of our desserts in Malaysia. 
How would you describe your cooking style?
Hearty, spicy and punchy
What has been the most rewarding part of your journey so far with Mambow? 
There’s been quite a few moving moments in this journey, but probably getting No. 1 restaurant in London by Time Out last year was pretty crazy, to think such a personal concept can resonate with others is amazing.
How did your cooking career begin, and what inspired you to pursue this path? 
It began in University, I’d had completely lost interest in my degree and felt lost. Started cooking for others as therapy and realised how much pleasure I took out of it. Soon enough I started hosting proper supper clubs and signed up to cooking school. 
What is your earliest memory in the kitchen? 
Growing up in my family’s bakery, I was pretty much decorating cakes and shaping cookies from 6 years old. To this day, I almost get more excited coming up with new dessert ideas. 
What does cooking mean to you personally? 
It just completely grounds me and gives me a focus that I can’t seem to find anywhere else. I almost need it to survive. 
When creating your dishes, where do you draw inspiration from? How do you balance maintaining traditional elements while giving them a modern twist? 
I would start most of my dishes from a traditional recipe I’ve found in a history book or from a memory of my childhood, at the same time, being inspired by dishes I eat around London and it’s produce.  The overall flavour will always remain true to my memories. 
What is the most valuable lesson you’ve learned in your career so far? 
Perfection doesn’t exist. 
ABBY'S REMPAH FISH, POMELO KERABU
ABBY'S REMPAH FISH, POMELO KERABU

Sambal Tumis

This recipe is good for 3 whole fish, but a great condiment to just have in your fridge!

For 2

Ingredients

  • 160g Long Red Chilli
  • 7g Dried Kashmiri Chilli, boil for 3 mins to soften & strain
  • 140g Lemongrass, top half cut off save for other dishes 160g Red Onion
    10g Belacan
  • 1 1⁄4 tsp Ground Turmeric
  • 1 tsp Fine Sea Salt
  • 30g Granulated Sugar
  • 3 tbsp Tamarind Concentrate, Thai or Vietnamese Brand
  • Vegetable or Rapeseed Oil for frying

Method

Step 1. Roughly chop your long red chilli and red onion. Taking care to slice the lemongrass thin so it will be easy to process later on. In a food processor, make your spice paste by adding the first five ingredients on the list. The paste doesn’t have to be completely smooth, a little texture is good. Mix in ground turmeric at the end.

Step 2. Heat a wok or sauté pan with oil up to 1cm high. Fry off your spice paste on medium heat until the oil splits and colour has deepened to a dark red. This could take around half an hour. Finally add in your seasonings to further caramelise the sambal, for another 3-5 minutes. This sambal might taste more heavily seasoned as the fish will be relatively unseasoned. Leave to cool to room temp, or you can make this the day before.

Step 3. Slice down both sides of the back bone of the bream, to make two pockets. Careful not to get to the stomach, you want that side sealed. Salt both sides of the fish, leave for 10 minutes, before stuffing both pockets generously with the sambal tumis made earlier. Try not to fill it to the brim, leaving 1cm off.

Step 4. Shallow-frying the Bream: Heat oil in a wide deep pan up to 2 inches to 175c. Carefully fry the stuffed bream for about 2-3 minutes on each side until golden & crispy, depending on the size of your fish. Serve with some lime wedges and your zingy Pomelo Kerabu below.

Pomelo Kerabu & Dressing

Ingredients

  • 12g Coriander Stem & Root, finely chop 10g Long Red Chilli, finely chop
  • 1 Birds Eye Chilli, finely slice
  • 2 1⁄4 tbsp Lime Juice
  • 2 1⁄2 tbsp Fish Sauce
  • 1 tsp Water
  • 1 1⁄2 tbsp Granulated Sugar
  • 150g Pink Pomelo, peeled and picked into chunks
  • 1 tbsp Fried Shallot
  • 1 tbsp toasted coconut
  • Mix Herbs of your choice (Mint, Wild Betel Leaf, Vietnamese Coriander, Coriander, Dill)
  • 1⁄4 Red Onion, thinly sliced

Method

Step 1. In a pestle & mortar, pound coriander, red chilli and birds eye chilli until a thick paste. Stir in the rest of the ingredients until the sugars have been dissolved.

Step 2. Toss the dressing through the salad ingredients. A Kerabu needsto be half herbs.. I like to keep some herbs whole (Vietnamese coriander) and some thinly sliced (Wild betel leaf).

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Quickfire
Night in or night out? 
Night out
Favourite Malaysian snack? 
Pulut Panggang (glutinous rice rolls filled with shrimp sambal, grilled in banana leaf)
Sweet or savoury? 
Savoury 
What do you cook when you don’t have many ingredients in the house?
A French Omelette, if I've got some cheese, bonus.
Best song to play when cooking? 
Jumbo, Underworld
City or countryside? 
City
Comfort meal?
Sarawak laksa 
Best kitchen tip?
Weigh all your ingredients out before cooking  
Dream dinner guest? 
Law Roach

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